Tuesday, February 14, 2006

V-day vignettes

Bf's brother called me on V-day eve to ask if I could recommend any good places to go for dinner on V-day. I came up with a list, prefaced and end-noted with the warning "But I don't know if you can get a booking now though...."

As it turned out, he couldn't get a booking at any of the places I recommended as predicted, so was thinking of booking a non-descript (and moreover, lacking in my seal of approval, gasp!) Thai place.

Our conversation went something like this:
Me: Were you going to be picking your gf up from work for dinner?
Him: Oh, no, she's not working tomorrow!
Me: Oh! Then why are you rushing with everyone else to get a dinner booking?? You could just do lunch instead!
Him: Oh yeah...but I thought dinner would be nice...
Me: Oh yeah, dinner would be nice...

Help, I'm losing my sense of romance and trading it for a sense of practicality! This is what almost 5 years of going out will do for you.

***

After a lousy track-record of terrible V-days we're starting to get it right! Went for dinner last night (albeit a last minute decision- we were supposed to have a picnic in a National Park until the weather clouded over and it got kinda cold) at a cosy little bistro. We exchanged gifts. It was nice. But considering that the last time we went out properly (like...on a date date, as opposed to just eating out somewhere because we happen to be together at the time) was when he got back from the UK about a year ago, maybe my standards are dropping!

Hope you had a nice V-day whatever you did.

***

Oh, and bf revealed that he's going to work in NZ til June. I am the Queen of Long-Distance Relationships! =p

4 Comments:

At 2:58 PM, Blogger Jenni said...

Picked up from another blog:

6 Weeks, 6 Months, 6 Years
See how communication changes over time between a couple.

6 weeks : I love U, I love U, I love U.
6 months : Of course I love U.
6 years : GOD, if I didn't love U, then why the hell did I propose?

**Back from Work:
6 weeks : Honey, I'm home.
6 months : BACK!!
6 years : What did your mom cook for us today??

**Gifts:
6 weeks : Honey, I really hope you liked the ring.
6 months : I bought you a painting; it would fit the motif in the living room.
6 years : Here's the money. Buy yourself something.

**Phone Ringing:
6 weeks : Baby, somebody wants you on the phone.
6 months : Here, for you.
6 years : PHONE RINGING.

**Cooking:
6 weeks : I never knew food could taste so good!
6 months : What are we having for dinner tonight?
6 years : AGAIN!!!!

**Apology:
6 weeks : Honey muffin, don't you worry, I'll never hold this against you.
6 months : Watch out! Don't do it again.
6 years : What's not to understand about what I just said??

**New Dress:
6 weeks : Oh my God, you look like an angel in that dress.
6 months : You bought a new dress again???
6 years : How much did THAT cost me?

**Planning for Vacations:
6 weeks : How do 2 weeks in Vienna or anywhere you please sound??
6 months : What's so bad about going to Istanbul on a charter plane?
6 years : Travel? What's so bad about staying home???

**TV:
6 weeks : Baby, what would you like us to watch tonight?
6 months : I like this movie.
6 years : I'm going to watch ESPN, if you're not in the mood, go to bed, I can stay up by myself.

 
At 2:59 PM, Blogger Jenni said...

I studied the ethical obligations of lawyers on V day.

Beat that.

 
At 3:00 PM, Blogger Jenni said...

A National Park?

You know, for the past week, I've been wanting to take a stroll through the Royal Botanical Gardens.

Who knows why.

I don't think I've been there since.....primary school?! No idea.

But .... I must be getting of age.

 
At 3:01 PM, Blogger Jenni said...

This could have all been one comment.

But what the hell.

It makes you feel popular.

=P

 

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