Pangs

Help, I'm getting long-term relationship pangs!

Bf and I are 13 days away from our 4 year anniversary. I love him heaps and want to get married one day in the not-too-distant future (it'd BETTER not be in the DISTANT future, grrr *gnashes teeth* hehehe). I think we relate to each other really well and that we make a good team. He makes me laugh like no one else can, and yes, he is still getting milage from paying for a vast proportion of our Tuscan tour around this time last year.

The only thing is, I really, really, really miss the days when the relationship was new and fresh, and we did stuff besides sit on the couch and watch tv decked out in our tracksuit pants and jersies! I miss when I did have to prod him to email me/message me/buy me little presents now and then. Back then, so much more effort was put into the relationship, into showing me that he loved me. Now, that's more like assumed knowledge. Now, I KNOW that a relationship is so much more than those little things, but I really miss them. And sometimes I wonder if I could make a life without those little touches.